The Real Housewives of Miami Season 7 has already been an emotional rollercoaster for Alexia Nepola. On the June 11 Season premiere, Alexia revealed she was blindsided by husband Todd Nepola filing for divorce, only to reconcile with him shortly after. The saga continued on Episode 2, when Alexia seemed to have another change of heart about her relationship.
During the June 18 episode, Alexia revealed to her friends that months after filing for divorce, Todd was being forced by the courts to either drop the filing or proceed—and her feelings on it were complicated.
“I’m still in love with this man,” she confessed during the group dinner.
Julia Lemigova quickly reminded her of the betrayal she felt when Todd moved out behind her back but in front of her 28-year-old son, Frankie Rosello.
“When I ran into [Todd] in the restaurant, all I was thinking [was], ‘You are the guy. Now you’re smiling [at] me, but you are the guy who left Frankie,’” she told Alexia.
“You know what? F—k him. F—k him. F—k Todd,” Alexia answered, as all of her friends cheered. She later added: “My kids are everything to me. That’s so f—king true. He did that.”
But then, she began to cry at the table and revealed just how complicated of a situation it was.
“I’m still attracted to this f—king a—hole. You guys have to help me,” she sobbed. “I can’t go back to this guy! He’s a f—king monster!”
Alexia Nepola opens up about the “emotional limbo” of Todd Nepola divorce
Alexia’s declaration against Todd at dinner came just days after she and Julia took a pilates class—and she was in a much different mindset at that time.
“You know, I’m like in an emotional limbo,” she told Julia after learning that Todd either had to proceed with the divorce or dismiss it.
“I hope he doesn’t proceed with [the divorce],” she admitted. “I don’t know what it is, Julia. Like honestly, like years ago, I would have been done. But it’s hard.”
The decision of whether to make things work with Todd came after months of trying to mend their relationship.
“For five months, I’ve put in so much effort into saving my marriage,” Alexia told Julia. But rather than make a decision herself, Alexia claimed the ball was in Todd’s court.
“So I guess I’ll just have to accept [the decision] and say, ‘This is what God wanted, and God has a plan,’” she admitted. “But yeah, I’m super anxious.”
Are Alexia Nepola and Todd Nepola divorced?
Yes. Ultimately, Alexia and Todd decided to proceed with their divorce. However, they are still romantically together.
“After thoughtful reflection, Todd and I have reached an amicable divorce settlement. While our marriage has legally ended, our relationship has not,” Alexia explained in a statement to People in March 2025. “We continue to love and support each other as we navigate this next chapter. We appreciate the understanding, love, and support from our family, friends, and fans.”
Would Alexia remarry Todd (now that they’re officially divorced)? Don’t miss her surprising answer.
