“We have no future plans of marriage, and we haven’t talked about kids… But, you know, we made a decision early on that our lives are so complicated,” he said in a July 2026 interview with Bravo Insider. “We just decided after month one, we’re going to do what we do.”
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Jesse, who lives in the Los Angeles area, also noted that with Lacy living in Orange County, he’s using it as an opportunity to grow his business as a real estate agent.
“Everything’s going good. I have a business partner that I’ve been working with for the last few years since Michelle and I separated our business. And it was certainly a struggle to, after having a business partner and a team for 12 years, having it disassembled during the separation and then figure out how to do some things that I necessarily didn’t do while Michelle and I were working together. I had to kind of relearn and reestablish some relationships,” he said. “But it’s going great now. I mean, I’ve been trying to do a lot more business down in Orange County where Lacy lives.”
He added, “And the market down there is so much stronger than the market in L.A. And, so I’ve really been kind of focused on spending time down there.”
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When Jesse isn’t spending time with Lacy, he’s hanging out with the other special lady in his life: his 6-year-old daughter, Isabella, as he and Michelle co-parent their young kid together. “Co-parenting is going pretty well. I mean, it’s one thing we’ve always been good at. For me, we have such a strong, like father-daughter bond. She loves her new school; she started kindergarten last year. I just recently moved into a new house that she really enjoys. And I’m close to her school, so it’s pretty convenient for play dates and stuff like that,” he said.
 And Jesse told Bravo Insider that he’s watching Isabella come into her own. “It’s interesting to watch her. She comes home and calls me bro. Where did you learn that? You know what I mean? Stop hanging out with all the boys at school,” he said. “She’s great, though.”
