Teddi Mellencamp and PJ Conley have split after four months of dating. The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills alum confirmed her relationship with PJ in August, but is now opening up about what led to their breakup.
Teddi took to her podcast, Two T’s in a Pod, on Oct. 30, where she revealed that PJ had broken up with her they day before. “He’s like, ‘Should we talk, you know, about the future?’ And I was like, ‘I don’t, you know, like I kind of just talk day to day.’ Like, to be perfectly honest, I don’t know if I’m going to be alive in the future,” said Teddi, who is continuing to undergo immunotherapy treatments amid her cancer battle. “I’m just enjoying where I’m at, you know? And he’s like, ‘So what would you say in regards to me?'”
“I said, ‘You show me that you like me by your actions. Like, you make a nice effort. You always open doors. You’re very chivalrous. I’ve met your parents. I met your roommate. Like, I feel comfortable,” she said. “He’s the person I wake up and talk to every day. He’s the person I text with at night. Anytime anything comes up, that’s the person I’ve been communicating with.”
However, after having a conversation, PJ broke up with her. “He goes, ‘But when I look at a future, I don’t see you in it,'” she said.
Teddi Mellencamp reacts to her breakup from PJ Conley
Teddi continued, revealing that she was not yet ready for the end of their relationship. “I guess I didn’t expect it to happen so soon,” she said. “I guess it’s better sooner rather than later, but it doesn’t make it even better. It doesn’t hurt less. All of my physical insecurities are coming out. Like, I don’t look the way I did three years ago. And I know that…I’ve just been beating myself up all night. And I was like, ‘It’s [that] you’re just not good enough.'”
“I already miss him,” she added. “I told everything to him. I very rarely open up to people like that.”
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Teddi Mellencamp opens up about her relationship with PJ Conley
Although Teddi admitted during the episode that she had only been dating PJ for four months, she revealed that these months meant more to her amid her cancer journey. “I think four months for me is such a long time because it’s not just any months for me,” she said. “Because it’s like, I’m living in this really weird state of my life, where I don’t know myself anymore, and I’m trying to become the new me or whatever it may be and love her too, even though she’s very different.”
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Teddi Mellencamp reveals where she stands with ex-husband Edwin Arroyave today
Teddi had previously appeared on Jenny McCarthy’s podcast, The Jenny McCarthy Wahlberg Show, on Oct. 27, where she shared that she’s not yet divorced from her ex-husband, Edwin Arroyave due to “all this medical stuff.” But they are still in a good place today. “So we’re technically not divorced,” she said during the episode. “But I mean, it is so over. He has a very serious girlfriend who’s great. Who’s amazing.”
However, Edwin has been a person to support her amid their divorce. “He knows now even, I will call him sometimes when I’m upset and be like, ‘Help me get out of this funk.’ Because he knows me so well. And I also think it’s different when you’re not in love with the person anymore,” she said.
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